PARADOX - chapter 1.1.7
Recently, i was thinking about the perspectives we have about life.
I mean a life perspective is important when we judge situations in life that are quite harsh. It's important to have not only an objective perspective but also an optimistic one.
Sometimes, when we feel bad or think that someone is at fault, maybe the real situation was that no one's was really at fault, but we wanted to assign this clinging feeling of disappointment or stress or hurt feeling to someone real, someone that was close to us the moment we felt that strong feeling.
It's easier to attach the "bad" feeling to someone close to us, rather than going on with that bad mood clinging to us, and never knowing or realizing what's wrong.
There might be a situation that would make someone to raise an eyebrow and make them think that someone is using me for their benefit, but it's easier to think the bad things, like "oh yeah, he needs her so he's using her and she has no clue". but is that someone really using her? it's not always how its seems, sometimes there is more aspects to the picture.
Like when someone is trying to do a work out and then goes to eat a pizza, an outsider could think "oh hey why is he doing this short work out? for what use? it won't make the pizza's calories go away anyways", but the thing is that the person who wanted to work out was really aiming on improving his inner strength and flexibility not thinking about the weight or calories. So that's my problem with perspectives, everyone has their perspective on life, and I'm just sick and tired of explaining my perspective all the time, what is the use for that?
It won't change anything.
I mean a life perspective is important when we judge situations in life that are quite harsh. It's important to have not only an objective perspective but also an optimistic one.
Sometimes, when we feel bad or think that someone is at fault, maybe the real situation was that no one's was really at fault, but we wanted to assign this clinging feeling of disappointment or stress or hurt feeling to someone real, someone that was close to us the moment we felt that strong feeling.
It's easier to attach the "bad" feeling to someone close to us, rather than going on with that bad mood clinging to us, and never knowing or realizing what's wrong.
There might be a situation that would make someone to raise an eyebrow and make them think that someone is using me for their benefit, but it's easier to think the bad things, like "oh yeah, he needs her so he's using her and she has no clue". but is that someone really using her? it's not always how its seems, sometimes there is more aspects to the picture.
Like when someone is trying to do a work out and then goes to eat a pizza, an outsider could think "oh hey why is he doing this short work out? for what use? it won't make the pizza's calories go away anyways", but the thing is that the person who wanted to work out was really aiming on improving his inner strength and flexibility not thinking about the weight or calories. So that's my problem with perspectives, everyone has their perspective on life, and I'm just sick and tired of explaining my perspective all the time, what is the use for that?
It won't change anything.
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