Failure(?)
Photo by Nathan Dumlao on Unsplash The first step to admitting our failure is to share and speak of it. That is the only way to come to terms with our failure. People in my circle always worried about underperforming at work, afraid of their co-workers’ criticism. Sometimes we worry about our so-called failure because our mind is programmed to think that specific situation is the opposite of success. We need to change our mindset. Our paths are different, even though in some sense we do go through similar hardships. Our journey to change our mindset is going to be different. I have been watching a video on coursera about “Intensity and the Ordinary” as part of the “ The Modern and the Postmodern (Part 2) ” course. The instructor, Mr. Michael S. Roth , referred to Freud’s concept of pursuing consolation. Freud wanted people to understand that they won’t find consolation through ideals. Freud doesn’t think we should have ideals that we strive to liv